The patient may have had to give up most things, because he is now unable to do them, or because they are now detrimental to his well being. You, on the other hand, have to compromise, simply because you are the caregiver. Despite the health, inclination and ability, you are making changes in your lifestyle. How can this possibly be easy? Even if your family, friends and sometimes the patient, do not see or understand this, you must be fair and understanding to yourself.

Bottling up your frustration and emotions can make you tired, angry, intolerant, unhappy and physically unwell. It also makes your breaking down in front of the patient, a distinct possibility. This is something you will want to avoid. It would add to the patient's guilt and misery and can undo all your efforts, at maintaining a positive attitude.