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Sex Education To Adolescents by Dr. Vithal Prabhu
Sex Education To Adolescents
Why to Adolescents?
Sex education should be provided
to all. However, our resources are limited. Priority is given to adolescents
because:
- They have a maximum sex drive.
- They form a high risk
group.
- They are eager to get information because of the physical
and physiological changes.
- Their common sources of information (misinformation)
are their friends, blue films and pornographic literature.
- They are
easily influenced and therefore likely to go astray and land in probems
of unmarried motherhood, abortions, STD/HIV infections, sexual abuse.
- They are going to be the responsible citizens of tomorrow.
Adolescents
gather information about sexuality from friends and through the print
and electronic media. Often this information is wrong and unscientific.
They have a great curiocity and concern about the sexuality of their
own and of the opposite sex. Adolescents often have neither access to
accurate information on the issues related to sexuality and sexual health,
nor solutions for their problems, due to socio-cultural barriers. There
is a rising rate of morbidity associated with sexual ignorance, poor
decision making and inadequate sexuality education. The studies on the
effects of sex education in schools show that sex and AIDS education
often encourages young people to delay sexual activity and to practise
safer sex, once they are active. This is contrary to the popular belief
that teaching young people about sexuality and contraception encourages
sexual experimentation. In a study of AIDS prevention programme done
by UNICEF of selected Municipal Schools in Bombay (Mumbai), it was found
that students queries ranged from sexual intercourse to marriage
and sexual harassment. Many womens organizations feel that the
girls should not be ignorant about basic facts of life and become victims
of sexual abuse, unwanted pregnancy and deception.
A survey shows that
50% of the daily clientele of an STD clinic comes from 15 to 25 age
group. Children are not less informed but they are malinformed. Ignorance
and misinformation provide the ideal environment for all sorts of risky
behaviour. It is such behaviour that spreads HIV infection. Aims of
Sex Education to adolescents
ITo help children understand that each
part of the body and each phase of growth is good and purposeful. - To understand the process of reproduction.
- To prepare children for
the changes of developments which come with growing up.
- To help young
people see that sexual conduct involving other persons needs to be based
upon a sincere regard for the welfare of the other.
- To make children
proud of their own sex and appreciate attributes and capacities of the
other sex.
- Responsible sex behaviour.
- Building up of healthy attitudes
to sex.
The aim is of prepare the adolescents of today to be productive,
to have responsible and positive social-sexual behaviour, and to be
caring and healthy adults of tomorrow. The need for this is knowledge,
attitudes and skill gained through sequential sexuality education programme.
Sex Education is:
- Information: To provide accurate information about
human sexuality, including growth and development, human reproduction,
anatomy and physiology of genital organs, pregnancy, child birth, parenthood,
contraception, abortion, sexual abuse, HIV/AIDS and sexually transmitted
diseases (STD).
- Attitude, values and insight: Opportunity to question,
explore and assess their sexual attitudes in order to develop their
own values, increase self-esteem, develop insights concerning relationships
with members of both genders, and understand their obligation and responsibilities
to others.
- Relationships and interpersonal skills: Help them develop
skills like communication, decision making, assertiveness, peer refusal
skills and ability to create satisfactory relationships. Develop capacity
for caring, supportive, non-coercive and mutually pleasurable intimate
relationships.
- Responsibility: To help young people exercise responsibility
regarding sexual relationships, including abstinence; resist pressure
to prematurely involve in sexual intercourse and encourage the use of
contraception and other health measures.
To avoid teenage pregnancy,
STD and HIV infection and sexual abuse. When to Begin? There is little
value in giving anyone information after the moment when they need it.
Girls need to know about menstruation before it happens to them, and
boys need to know about mastubation before they are experiencing the
desire to masturbate. Boys experience nocturnal emissions from the age
of about 14 years and girls attain menarche at the age of about 13 years.
Some boys and girls experience these events even a year of two earlier.
It is felt that the adolescent sex education should begin before these
events take place. Std. VI (age 11 years) is thought to be the age when
sex education for adolescents should begin. Ideally sexuality education
for adolescents should be introudced from Class VI (age 11 years) and
continued through junior and senior colleges (age-20 years). Students
of Std. X and XII should be spared for their Board examinations. The
aim is to provide information and guidance before they become curious,
face problems due to physical and psychological changes or become sexually
active. How to implement? Sexuality education should be offered as a
part of overall comprehensive health education programme. It should
include health promotion and disease prevention. The sexuality education
should be taught in a graded manner like mathematics. Secondly, the
messages once introduced should be reinforced repeatedly at different
levels. Agewise suitable curriculum should be available. Level I
Std. VI to X - Age 11 to 15 years. to cover basics and essentials.
Level II Junior College and Senior College Age 16 to 20 years
to cover advanced studies and reinforce- ment of education. It
is possible to develop more than the above two levels for the age group
of 11 to 20, but then it would be difficult to demarcate the borderline
between the levels while teaching the subjects. Some aspects of sex
education are gender specific and hence gender relevant. Therefore,
separate sessions for boys and girls give opportunity to discuss the
concerned topics at length, avoid embarrassment while discussing the
subject and overcome shyness and anxiety while listening and enable
them to share their doubts and views openly. Girls feel shy, embarrassed
and uncomfortable in the presence of boys and hence non-communicative.
Therefore, they do not participate in the open discussion. Girls and
boys have different problems. If the sex education programmes are to
be made acceptable, girls and boys should be given sex education separately.
The general topics of sexuality and health could be discussed in a male-female
mixed group, while specific issues related to different sexes should
be discussed separately in the respective groups. The advantages of
combined sessions are saving of time and repetition, fostering healthy
interpersonal relationship between boys and girls, developing mutual
respect and reducing inhibitions and anxiety about the subject in the
presence of the opposite sex. The girls and boys feel more comfortable
if the resource person is of the same sex as their's. Girls ask questions
related to menstruation and gynaecological disorders. Boys ask questions
related to virility, masturbation, wet dreams, size of penis and coitus.
Teachers and students will feel more comfortable if they both are of
the same gender. Therefore, it is preferable that the girls are given
sex education by female teacher and boys by male teacher. There will
be a necessity of having one male and one female educator in the school.
These teachers should be trained by social workers, doctors, sexologists
and psychologists.
Recommendations:
- Sex education should be commensed
before the onset of puberty.
- It should be provided in a graded manner
and should be spread over a period of 8 to 10 years.
- It should be
optional. This would help overall acceptance of the concept in the long
run.
- Parent's permission should be obtained and their cooperation
should be solicited.
- Sex education may be a part of the curricular
or extracurricular activity.
- An evaluation of the programme should
be done, feed- back received, review and analysis done, and the programme
should be modified from time to time.
- Teaching should have a social
perspective.
- Answers be given truthfully.
- Use correct names for
various organs.
- Parents/teachers should not be panic stricken or
shocked if the child asks questions or indulges in sex play. Curiosity
is normal. Such situation should be handled without rebuke, punishment
or creating guilt feelings.
- Parents and teachers should inculcate
a sound sense of values and ideals. They should help young people capture
the vision that sex is not a grimy secret between two ashamed individuals
but divine impulse of life and love.
Teaching at school: (Sex education
in the school can best be extension of the sex education provided at
home.)
- Teaching should be scientifically correct.
- It should be
a two way dialogue.
- The subject being emotionally charged, the language
used and the manner of conducting of the programme should be socially
acceptable.
- The groups of students should be homogeneous in age and
in cultural background.
- If the teaching is round the year, 45 minutes
to 1 hour session once a week should be adequate. Half a day or full
day workship periodically 4 times a year would serve as an alternative.
- Talks should be supported by audio-visual aids.
- Group should not
be over 50. Otherwise two way communication is difficult to establish.
- Should begin as a pilot project.
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At least one trained teacher
- Support of administration
- Support
of parents and teachers. A talk should be arranged for them so as to
give an idea of the contents of the programme. Prior permission of the
parents of participating students would be obligatory.
- Informal experimental
programme should be undertaken on a modest scale and carefully planned
to avoid culture-based sensational and needlessly controversial topics.
Implementation of programme:
The method and contents will depend upon:
a) Availability of human resources b) Availability of time c) Availability
of audio-visual aids d) Age, educational level, sex and cultural background
of the group.
Methods: 1) Talks 2) Group discussion 3) Question box 4)
Question-Answer sessions 5) Role play 6) Drama 7) Story telling 8) Debates
9) Showing films or slides Though, talks is a conventially used method,
the other methods, if used, could bring a variety in the programme and
maintain interest of the students.
Several topics could be picked up
for the debates and dramas, e.g., STD/AIDS, teenage pregnancy, dowry,
premarital counselling, myths and misconceptions, homosexuality, child
marriage, sexual abuse, gender discrimination, selection of partner.
Question Box approach for sex education is found to be effective.
This method consists of installing a question box in a central place
in the school/college campus. By putting a notice on the Notice Board
all the students are informed to write questions (without writing their
name) about their health problems or questions relating to their bodies
and put them in the box. Once a week the box is opened by the teachers
and the questions written therein are answered.
Question box approach
to sex education is found to be convenient, easy to implement, takes
care of embarrassment and fulfils the needs of the adolescents. Should
sex education programme be included in a regular secondary school curriculum?
Though, majority of principals and teachers are in favour of including
sex education in the secondary school curriculum, some have expressed
their reservations for it, the reasons being (1) Some topics are sensitive
and may raise controversy, (2) Sex education would raise unnecessary
curiosity and lead to misconduct among students. (3) Students are already
overburdened with studies, (4) Schools have no extra time to allocate
for sex education.
Who should give Sex Education?
Sexuality education
should be taught by specially trained teachers or professionals or by
trained peer groups. The community must be involved in the development
and implementation of the programme. The programme must be carefully
developed to respect the diversity of the values and beliefs represented
by the community. Parents, teachers, administrators should be involved
in developing a programme. In fact, briefing them about the developed
programme prior to its implementation to students is quite essential.
Preferably, the curriculum and the audiovisuals should be pretested.
Who Should train? Sexologists, doctors, nurses, psychologists, social
workers, teachers, volunteers, NGOs, media persons, peer groups etc.
They should be trained in the subjects. Since the subject of sex education
is multidisciplinary, more than one resource persons may be required.
Government, municipality, NGOs, can render help. Not only the knowledge
of sexuality but the methodology should also be included in the training.
The Trainers/Teachers should Have acquired accurate knowledge Have a
good communication skill Have a good listening skill Be able to establish
good rapport with students and teachers Be non judgemental Be comfortable
with his/her own sexuality.
Maintain confidentiality Selection of teachers:
It has been indicated by the adolescents in a survey that they would
prefer to get such information from their teachers. Teachers are also
best judges about the level of understanding of school child and they
would be the best persons to screen or filter the socially unacceptable
portions of such training. However, not all teachers would volunteer
to participate in the project. Teachers have their own inhibitions,
misconceptions and confusions. Therefore, those teachers who volunteer
for teaching sex education should be selected for training. It requires
a gifted prudent and morally upright teacher to stand up before a group
of young people and impress upon them that sex is precious and dignified.
Therefore, not every teacher may be willing to undertake sex education
and not every teacher who is willing to give sex education has the ability
to do so. Sometimes the most enthusiastic teacher may be the least suitable.
The teachers should be selected only after thorough knowledge of their
personality, attitudes and behaviour. Students should be encouraged
to act as peer educators, and to share important information with those
who dont have access to it in the way they do. Organizational
Chart\ When the sex education programme is to be implemented on a large
scale, the following organizational chart will be of help.
Planners
: Core Committee: Govt. representatives Civic body representatives Experts
in Human Sexuality Representatives from NGOs Representatives from Principals
of schools/colleges Master Trainers : Sexologists Psychologists Trained
social workers Doctors Key Trainers : Teachers Volunteers Beneficiaries
: Students Parents Audio-visual Aids and Resource Material 1. Chalk-Blackboard
2. Charts/Pictures 3. Models 4. Slides and slide projector 5. Overhead
projector 6. Video cassettes 7. Films 8. Books 9. Newspaper cuttings.
At present many types of audio-visuals are not easily available. It
is better to prepare ones own audio-visuals that will meet the
needs of the group.
Cultural differences in customs, dress, language
and behaviour becomes so important that materials judged to be suitable
in one region or culture may be totally unacceptable in another. Therefore,
each cultural group should develop its own appropriate teaching aids.
In order to achieve the best possible outcome from any programmes, it
is necessary to invest in the development of competence of people who
will be involved. Pretesting Pretesting inolves getting feedback on
communication materials prior to their widespread diffusion by measuring
the reaction of a group of individuals in the target audience. Pretesting
is a cost effective means of avoiding a communications disaster. If
materials are inappropriate, misunderstood or unappealing, they will
not be worth and should be changed. Pretesting finds out whether the
curriculum and the audio-visual materials are acceptable to the culture,
whether the message is clearly understood and whether the materials
are relevant.
Outcome: The entire exercise of sex education is directed
towards certain desired outcome. After getting sexuality education,
the adolescent is expected to demonstrate certain life behaviours such
as: Appreciation of ones own body Interaction with
both genders respectfully and in appropriate ways Expression
of love and intimacy in appropriate ways Development and mainteinance
of meaningful relationship Living according to ones values
Taking responsibility for ones own behaviour Practising
effective decision making Communicating effectively with family
and peers Enjoying ones sexuality throughout life
Enjoying sexual feeling without guilt, shame and fear Discrimination
between life enhancing sexual behaviours and those that are harmful
to self and for others. Expression of ones sexuality while
respecting the rights of others. Sexual relationship that are
characterised by honesty, equality and responsibility. Prevention
of sexual abuse/rape. Avoidance of unintended pregnancy.
Avoidance of contracting or transmitting STD/HIV Use of contraception
as and when necessary. Early prenatal care Health promoting
behaviour like regular check up. Awareness about sex scandals
Awareness about child marriage and population explosion.
Freedom from sexual inhibition/overactivity. Avoidance of premarital
and extramarital relationship. Freedom from sexual dysfunctions.
Happy married life and responsible parenthood. Refrain
from quackery in the matters of sexuality. Tolerance for people
with different sexual values and life styles. Responsibility
to abide by legislation dealing with sexual issues. Assessment
of impact of cultural, religious, social meassages and media on ones
thoughts, feeling, values and behaviour related to sexuality.
Awareness about social evils like dowry deaths, female infanticide,
gender discrimination, premarital pregnancy, child marriage, exploitation
of females, sexual abuse and prostitution.
Ethics in Sex Education:
No
body contacts No slang language No vulgar jokes No use of naked photographs/pornography
No late hours No individual training Non judgemental No religious, cultural
criticism No sharing of and asking for personal experiences No emotional
involvement No advertisement or promotion of any commercial product.
Confidentiality about the communication on sexual and personal matters.
Be honest and answer truthfully all the questions posed by children.
Evaluation: It is essential to receive the feedback, evaluate and analyse
and modify the programme from time to time.
Evaluation helps in knowing
the effectivenss and shortcomings of the programme conducted. Suitable
modifications can be made in the next programme to make them more effective.
The data collected can be useful for research. The evaluation form should
contain personal details (name may be optional so as to hide the identity)
and the comments about the contents of the programme, the speakers,
the audio-visuals, the duration and other details. Evaluation can also
be based on stated objectives of the course and cover attitudinal, behavioural
and cognitive changes. Questionnaire or interviews in small groups intended
to identify the needs of participants will determine how far these are
being met. On the basis of information gained from these sources the
curriculum will require continuing modification and restructuring. Research
There are several methods of sex research. Each method has strengths
and weaknesses. The selection of the method will depend upon the nature
of the subject to be studied and the resources available. The methods
are: Surveys, Observational research, Case studies, Clinical research, Experimental
research.
Survey Research Surveys are used for gathering information
about a sample of population either by interviewing people or asking
them to fill a questionnaire. Surveys are economical and permit flexibility
in sampling. Surveys are affected by the accuracy of information provided
by the subjects in answering questionnaires or interviewers questions.
Reliability of surveys depend upon obtaining a proper sample.
Observational
Research It involves the use of human observer or an instrument to record
the events being studied. The study of sexual response done by Masters
and Johnson was a landmark. The accuracy in observational research does
not depend upon subjects self-reports. Volunteer bias may pose
uncertainties in this method.
Case Studies Case studies are in-depth
examinations of one or more people having a particular condition. Generalization
can- not be done in this method. The biases of researcher can also put
limitations.
Clinical Research It involves studies that test a type
of treatment given for specific problem. The reliability will be maximum
when done in comparison with a control group.
Experimental Research
It permits scientists to isolate specific variables that affect a condition
or a behaviour and may allow them to draw a conclusion about cause and
effect. Experimental research is expensive and difficult to perform.
Volunteer bias, artificiality of situation may limit the validity of
such studies. At present surveys seem to be the only possible method
of research in our country. In evaluating the quality of research study
it is necessary to look at such issues as the size and nature of the
sample, the means by which data was collected, the type of data analysis
that was done and the researchers discussion about the limitations
of the study. It is necessary to see whether the study has been replicated
elsewhere. Independent verification or research is most powerful tool
for confirming the validity of a study.
Planning a Curriculum There
are no published countrywide accepted national guidelines for comprehensive
adolescent sexuality education. Sex educators and teachers create their
own curriculum for sexuality education. Some include anatomy and physiology
of sex organs, physical, emotional changes at puberty, STD and AIDS,
nutrition and hygiene and family planning; while some include family
life issues such as relationship between family members, gender role,
socialization and child development; few provide information about cultural
and social aspects of human sexuality, sexual values and attitudes,
beliefs, sexual activities and functioning. Very few include information
on sexual behaviour.
Every expert has been dealing with it from ones
own perspective and experience. Therefore, there is a need for a comprehensive
course in sexuality education. There can be no ideal curriculum that
will meet the needs of every community. However, there can be a document
containing guidelines on topics that may be presented to the adolescents
in a developmentally appropriate manner, and to suit their needs. These
guidelines are given in the next chapter. The characteristic of local
situation should determine the exact contents of the local programme.
Community attitudes, developmental differences in children, local socioeconomic
influence, parents expectations, students needs and expectations
and religious and other perspectives should be paramount in designing
the local sexuality education programme. The suggestions given in the
agewise guidelines should also be flexible. It is important to allow
as much autonomy as possible at local level to develop contents and
methods which are suitable to local circumstances and preferences. In
early years of life, the focus of student-interest is his own developmental
adjustment with reference to sexual behaviour. At the later stage, when
he has accepted his own sexuality and established his values, he is
ready to concentrate on assimilation of knowledge, especially of those
aspects of sexuality that seem most relevant to his special areas of
interest. Sex relationships are most sensitive of all human relationships.
A programme will not be effective if there is no understanding of moral,
ethical, aesthetic and religious sensibilities of the people for whom
the curriculum is designed. Apart from accepting a few basic principles
on which general agreement is reached, planners would be wise to adopt
a flexible approach and avoid stereotypes. The programme will require
modification from time to time depending upon the feedback, the need,
the acceptance and the changing circumstances.
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